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Why Does a Filipina Want to Date an Old White Man?

Nowadays a growing number of Filipinas are dating old white men. Why is this happening? Let’s find it out!

  • Hypergamy is more common in the Philippines. If you are familiar with that well-known HBO TV show, you are aware of the fact that career-minded lawyer Miranda Hobbs was dating a bartender Steve Brady and she even married him. Obviously, many western women are not thinking about marrying up because the majority of western women have sufficient career opportunities in developed countries where men and women are equal. In contrast, women in the Philippines live in a very different reality because the Philippines isn’t a wealthy country where women can find a lot of career opportunities and become successful. As a result, a large number of Filipinas want to marry up. Perhaps I don’t need to explain that white men are more privileged in many ways, so of course, Filipinas want to date white men. Frankly, young white men can easily date hot white women, whereas old white men find it harder to get hot white girls. Therefore, many old white men prefer dating Filipinas
  • Filipinas generally speak English well. Because English is also an official language in the Philippines, Filipinas learned English at school when they were young. As a result, the majority of Filipinas speak English fluently. Usually, younger Filipinas speak perfect English, whilst older Filipinas may have a thick accent. I know an older woman from the Philippines who can’t find proper jobs in the United States simply because of her rich accent – people have difficulty understanding her English, yet she only blames others for being racist. To be frank, that has nothing to do with racism because the market only wants easier communication. As to younger ladies from the Philippines, a lot of them speak American English because that’s what they studied at school when they were students. Since beauties from the Philippines can speak English well, old white men find it easier to communicate with them, thereby building relationships successfully.
  • It’s cheaper for an old white man to travel in the Philippines. In terms of mail order brides and international dating, we all know that there are plenty of options for old white men. For example, old white men can go to Eastern Europe and get Slavic brides. However, going to Asia is a much cheaper option because everything costs less in Asia. If your budget is over US$20,000, you can consider marrying an Eastern European bride. Yet if your budget is lower, perhaps you should consider marrying a Filipina because that’s a much cheaper alternative. I know some white men aren’t interested in interracial dating because they don’t find Asian women attractive. That’s not racist because attraction is not a choice. Men can’t logically choose who they feel attracted to. If a White man can’t even have an erection when he is with an Asian woman, then we shouldn’t blame him. So, he would be well-advised to date Slavic girls. Nevertheless, some White men don’t care whether they are dating a White woman or an Asian woman (as long as this woman has a box, that’s good enough.) Hence, they are happy to meet Filipinas and marry them. Of course, some White guys have a certain fetish, e.g. they only want to date Asian women; thus, Asian girls are their only options. And we don’t blame them either. People have different preferences, and that’s very normal.
  • Filipinas and White men have joined international dating websites and mail order brides’ agencies. In today’s day and age, there are many international dating sites and apps as well as mail order brides’ agencies everywhere. Many of these organizations want to attract Filipinas and old white men because they know girls from the Philippines are keen to marry White men and old white men are high-quality customers who will pay for these services. Of course, if you expect someone to find you a wife, you shouldn’t expect it to be a free service, right? Because most dating agencies want to attract old white men – old white men have more money (their target audience are older men in western countries), they are introducing old white men to ladies from the Philippines every single day. Therefore, their success stories are mostly about Filipinas and old white men. There is nothing wrong with that because everyone has the right to find love & these businesses are legitimate dating agencies.
  • Whiteness is highly valued in the Philippines. To be honest, whiteness is highly valued everywhere in Asia. If you go to Southeast Asia, you can easily see that Asian women always buy whitening skin-care products so that they can look whiter. That’s because having fair skin means you belong to the elite group in the society, whereas having darker skin means you belong to the lower class. Traditionally, Asian people who are upper class of the society don’t have to go out to work in the sun, so they have fair skin. By contrast, Asians who are peasants have to work in the sun; consequently, they have darker skin. Hopefully this makes sense. Since whiteness is highly valued by stunners in the Philippines, these hot women want to marry old white men (as younger white men probably want to marry white women). This isn’t the prettiest topic in the world, but that’s the truth.
  • Many old white men are divorced and they don’t want to date white women again. Frankly, a lot of these old white men are divorced they are sick and tired of dating western women who drained their energy. Apparently, the divorce rate in western countries is very high; sometimes it’s 60%. As a consequence, a growing number of old white men have lost their interest and faith in dating white ladies. Now they are looking for alternatives in dating and relationships because they don’t want to be hurt again. Then they have realized that Filipinas are more traditional, feminine and caring, so they are better wives. Maybe it’s not politically correct to compare women in the Philippines with western women, but this is the reality in many old white men’s mind. From some white men’s perspective, feminism in western countries is the reason why most relationships fail so fast. Interestingly, ladies in the Philippines aren’t thinking about feminism because that’s just a foreign concept which doesn’t really exist in the Philippines.
  • Filipinas are extremely good in the bedroom. Because most old white men have experienced a lot in their love lives, they expect their women to be very good in bed. Fortunately, beauties from the Philippines are quite good in bed, so they are able to make old white men happy in this regard. Honestly, this is a very important part in a marriage – According to relationship expert Jade Seashell, intimacy is one of the most paramount pillars in a relationship. Hence, old white men are very attracted to Filipinas who know how to please men in this aspect. It is said that women from the Philippines are better than Japanese women in the bedroom, so they obviously have an advantage that attracts western men in general. Certainly, we shouldn’t generalize all Filipinas and all Japanese ladies. We can only say this is probably a trend that we have observed because it is reported that Japanese beauties often have sexless marriages, whereas stunners  have very sexy marriages.
  • Many Filipinas want to leave the Philippines. Many girls from the Philippines don’t want to live in the Philippines because they want a better environment to live in. And the easiest way to leave the Philippines is to marry old white men who can provide them with visas in western countries. Actually, a lot of Filipinas are already working for western companies online because they are virtual assistants. But sadly, these western companies can only pay them low salaries as they know people’s income in the Philippines is very low. Nonetheless, if these virtual assistants move to western countries, then they will receive much higher salaries, for the minimum wage in western countries is significantly higher.

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